In the attempt to find my love, I found myself...

Yes, I have just realized that there are so many things in this world which hold more significance in my life than love. I think my mom needs more attention than you and I must help my brother in accomplishing his dreams. May be, it would be more substantial to follow what my boss says, than attending your call every night. At least he is real and not an illusion like you. I also think that it would be more appropriate to spend time with my parents in post dinner discussion and help them deciding how the future would look like for the family.

May be, it was just attraction or a friendship caught on fire....but I am sure it was not love. After today, I may think that it was an earmark that you left and I also won't regret that I did let you walk away. Those tiny details may not catch my attention going forward. My world would still move, if I don't tell someone what I had in my dinner or which clothes I wore on a specific day. Telling my mom how my day was in the office would make her happier and may bring a smile on her face than discussing those flyspecks with you. Seeing that smile should be the most important task in my life, rather than bringing you tonnes of gift to see you happy.

We might not have meant for being together, and I think I would not be able to keep this 'friendship' alive anymore. We can never be friends, because may be I loved you more than anything in this world before today. Till yesterday, our paths varied but our goals were same. Today onwards our goals also vary and I know I will achieve mine without you.

Till yesterday, I was striving hard to find you but I think in the attempt to find my love, I found myself. I must thank you for making my life easier. I must also thank you for making me reach the stage of self-realization.

May be I would like to continue my life journey without you and may be i still know that I truly love you...

Stay far....Stay away.

Please don't call, I have changed my number.

You would not be able to see me online on gtalk, I have blocked your ID.

Don't try tracking me on facebook, my technical friends have helped me blocking you permanently from facebook, may be they could have helped me in doing the same with my heart.

No Regards...you don't deserve any.

Nitin

This is a letter drafted by me for one of my friends. I tried my best to translate his feelings into words. May he recover soon. 

Thanks for reading me....your comments are my paycheques.

With Love

Hemant

When people reach the hights of cheapness....

This post is about the behavior of a special personality, I came across while my stay in Noida. You can learn how to use the facility of "Complementary breakfast" from this special personality....enjoy reading.....

Recently, I had a chance to stay in a hotel called Hotel Orange Pie" in Noida. I could term it as one of the best two star hotels in Noida city. That morning I observed this incident while having breakfast.

The hotel serves complimentary breakfast, and I saw one person sitting in hotel restaurant across the same table where I was having breakfast. The person was having Aloo Paratha, he applied 3 tea spoon butter on it. On the right side of the table I saw a full glass orange juice, a bowl of Fruit Jelly, and a bowl full of corn flex. On the left side of the plate, he kept a large cup of milk which was half filled (he had already consumed half of it while eating his first paratha). There were also 3 breads kept in a small plate with a minimum of 30 Gm butter on each slide.

While having Paratha, he complained about how bad the service is. He also complained about him being late because of such a slow service by hotel. He used the ideal time (when he was waiting for another paratha) in applying tonnes of butter on the bread toast and having it along with a little amount of jam. Now you must be knowing what the meaning of this 'a little' is for this special personality. Have you ever seen someone having fruit juice along with hot milk..I was also as astonished as you are after seeing this guy. On the top of that, that bread toast was also dipped into hot milk before tasting the tongue of this person. 

After finishing his first glass of Orange Juice, he ordered another one. Here we go with the conversation:

Foody: Waiter!!!!!!

Waiter: Yes Sir!!!! How can I help you!!!!!

Foody: Can you please get me a full glass of orange juice?

Waiter: Sir....I just wanted to inform that complimentary breakfast consists only one glass of juice. Shall I bring another one!!!!

I was waiting for this moment and here he found himself in this embarrassing moment.

Foody:  Wait for some time....let me finish my breakfast first. 

I saw him thinking something for few minutes....as if he is going to take  one of the most important decisions of his life. And the D moment came:

Foody (to waiter): Can you call the manager? 

Manager: Yes sir!! How was the breakfast!

Foody: I am going to shift to another hotel today. You guys can't an extra glass of juice and expecting a customer to pay Rs.3000/- for a day?

Manager tried his best to be as polite as possible, and handled the issue very diplomatically. He might have given this answer after understanding the mental condition of the guy he was dealing with.

Manager: Well, I would like to inform you that we serve only one glass of juice as a part of complementary breakfast and it's not the waiter's mistake. They have been instructed to inform the same to guests; however I will arrange an extra glass of juice for you without charging you any penny. Is that okay with you!!

Foody: Yes.....thank you. You guys are superb (he had this killing smile as if he has won a battle of his life)

Note: I was watching this entire episode while sitting across the table and sipping a cup of milk as slow as possible in order to watch the climax.

I always say this line: "The laughing recipe is available in plenty around you....you just need to observe and experience the same in your day-2-day life"

Thank you for reading me.....your comments are my paycheques :)

Review - Bade Achhe Lagte Hain - A daily soap on Sony TV

This one was quite unexpected...but my cousin (Mr. Sunjeev Arora) always provokes me to experiment. So I thought of writing a review on this family serial on Sony TV. I am not a fan of Sony or any other channel. I just watch TV as I don't have a choice. My mom follows all the Soaps on different channels and she can never affford to miss two serials, one  being "Bade Achhe Lagte hain"......

Unlike other daily soaps, this does not show the typical saas-bahu-dever-deverani conflict of upper class families. 'Bade Achhe Lagte hain' is a story of Ram Kapoor and Priya(Sakshi Tanwar). Both of them are in their middle age and have been busy with their professional life so much, that they have left their age behind. Both of them were happy with their individual life until they came to know that that their siblings are in love with each other. Situations lead to Ram and Priya getting hooked with each other by their families and the story takes an interesting turn. 

Though, some of the reviewers have claimed it to be a predictable serial, I still feel that the serial has got 'THE' factor in it. You would love the chemistry showed between this couple. Watch 'Bade Achhe Lagte Hain' for a different taste, enjoy the conversation and chemistry between this middle aged couple. Does not seem to be a typical BALAji serial.

Regardless of critics, its always audience who decides the fate of a film or serial. You may want to have a look at comments by different "Aam Janta" about this serial and you will get to know more:

http://www.tvserialsandshows.com/2011/05/bade-achhe-lagte-hain-bade-achhe-lagte.html

Rating: 4/5

PS: One more reason behind my entire family watches this serial is that Ram Kapoor just looks like my Elder cousin. My cousin is also as sensitive, gol matol as Ram Kapoor with the same walking style :)

Ma'am!!!! you got the wrong hand here.....

It was a perfect Sunday dated July 3, 2011. It's been over a month I did not get chance to spend a Sunday at home. My mom wanted me to stay @ home for the whole day and my Brother wanted me to go for a movie with him. I decided to surrender and preferred staying @ home for the whole day. 

At the same time I also booked two tickets for Transformer 3 from bookmyshow.com. Every-time I use these things, I think our genre to be fortunate enough to have access to such an advance technology. The day went by with 100miles/hour speed without realization. I went to market with mom to buy vegetables. Also paid a visit to D-Mart in Kalyani Nagar to purchase Grocery items for home. Forgot to mention....that I had also been given a responsibility to clean one of our rooms and I finished cleaning before 12:00 PM.

The best thing is when we went to Fun & Shop Multiplex, Fatima Nagar in night. The showtime was 10:15 PM and we decided to kill our time by enjoying the greenery  inside the Multiplex. Now THE moment came...when a couple was walking right in front of me with hands in hands. I was walking alone as my brother had not yet reached the multiplex. Suddenly my devil mind started imagining some pictures. I saw girl's boyfriend letting his hands off and walking towards something (May be he wanted to attend one call..i don't remember). I overtook the girl and was dancing in my own music. A girl came from behind and started walking holding my hands in her hands. We might have walked couple of steps and than I said, "Ma'am!!!! you got the wrong hand here....." I purposely walked a few steps to reach a group of people and than uttered these words. 

Everyone around started laughing and this girl kept apologizing, which added some more flavor to her existing embarrassment. I looked around with a killing smile and headed my way towards Theater # 3. Transporter # 3 :)

I am Sixty and she is Fifty........

It all happened so soon that,
none of us could ever realize,
She happened to be my friend first,
feeling of her being around made me mesmerize;
We were meeting for the first time,
heading towards the south part of the city,
I gave her a heart shaped balloon,
she gave me a smile - a bit gritty;

What could I say about weather,
the sky was a little misty…
Are you shocked when I say,
I am sixty and she is fifty;
Though we are physically old,
our heart still remained young,
Believe me I still retain my killing look,
And she looks like an atom bomb;

The date with my lady was awesome,
we kept holding each others hands,
the breeze was touching our faces,
we were sitting on the sea sands;

Her eyesight is not that good,

so what if I am a little fat,
we kept eating Bhelpuri one by one,
As, we had only one teeth-set...

Life and Shift+Delete Key!!!!!

He wish if there was a shift button on the keyboard of his life,

He would have pressed it along with delete key to get rid of his strife;

he has been trying to find out this shift key since one week,

so that he can feel refreshing after emptying the recycle bin.

Don't think that he'll carry this broken heart all along his life,

By god grace he has got great friends who are a call away to make him feel light;

Things had neither been wrong, nor they been right,

He was still trying to find out the reason of that tide.

Then he realized everything doesn't happen for a reason,

Every time he knew that he should not expect a perfect fusion;

Time is a strong healer, and does not hold things for long,

He found himself sailing in the middle of the sea, feeling strong.

Though it was middle of the sea, he has got his friends along,

Nothing is going to matter now, Tide or Maelstrom;

He found his calm and peace in the waves of the sea,

Suddenly a question raised in the mind, who was she!!!!

Note for all non techies: The data get deleted permanently from the computer when you press Shift+Delete key on your computer. The attempt was made to correlate the same with Life. 

Tujhe paane ki naakam koshish karta hu

Har baar main yahi galti karta hu,

tumhe paane ki naakam koshish karta hu;

Baithe baithe yu hi dhup me pata na chala kab shaam ho gai,

Subeh se shaam tak, ye chidiyo ki chehchahahat aam ho gai,

Galti thi meri main kubool karta hu,

Tere aane ka intzar ab bhi jaroor karta hu,

Kya karu, tujhe pane ki naakaam koshish karta hu;

Ummeedo ki binah par ye jeevan chalta rahega,

Har shaam chadta hua suraj yu hi dhalta rahega,

Fool khilne ke baad murjhane ki jab ghadi aayegi,

kasam se tumhari yaad badi aayegi,

Khushfehmiyon ki basti me ab roj marta hu,

apne nakaratmak vicharo se har din ladta hu,

Har baar main yahi galti karta hu,

Kya karu, tujhe pane ki naakaam koshish karta hu...

:) :) :) :)

Tumse Shuru hota hai har sawal...

Tumse shuru hota hai har sawal, aur har jawab tumpe khatam hota hai……..

Tumse shuru hota hai har sapna, aur har khayal tumpe khatam hota hai…..

Jeene ke mayne badal gaye, jab tum aaye jindgi me…….

Tumse shuru hoti hai har chaah, aur har rasta tumpe khatam hota hai……

Tumse shuru hota hai har sawal aur har jawab tumpe khatam hota hai…

Ummede to dafn kar di thi humne, ki koi aayega ab jindgi me……………

Darwaje bhi sare band the, ik aahat hui aur dekha, ki koi khidki se dastak deta hai….

Tumse shuru hota hai har sawal aur har jawab tumpe khatam hota hai……

Jab mud ke dekhta hu bhoot ko, to kuchh dhundhle se chehre nazar aate hain…….

Lekin vartmaan aur bhavishya ke aine me tumhara hi deedar hota hai…

Tumse shuru hota hai har sawal aur har jawab tumpe khatam hota hai……

She………and the moment

She was wearing a magenta Punjabi suit, her face was glowing like a 500 watts light,

I suddenly thought to dedicate few notes to the girl of my life;

She was looking stunning, gorgeous, with a clean layer of kazal in her eyes,

I was not able to look anywhere else but her face, she was looking charming and bright;

Than we crossed the road with her hands in my hands,

For a moment it seemed as if I was flying in the sky, my feet leaving the land;

I term those two hours as the fastest two hours, and those 3 days, as the logest 3 days of my life,

I had nothing in my mind, but focus on you and try my best for everything goes right;

My efforts were to make that moment as special for you as I can,

I was missing stars, romantic songs, music and if we could have a chance to dance in the rain;

Anyways, that parking was meaningful and became the witness of the most important episode,

You didn’t say no, neither had you said yes; we simply walked towards the road;

My eyes were about to go moist, but I stopped myself being weak,

I recalled my mother’s words that I am a fighter, I immediately asked you for a meet;

The answer was yes, I felt a little happy, and you said bye,

That was the most important hug of my life, it was warm, special, and almost made me cry;

Finally you accepted my love, with so many doubts and questions in your mind,

We definitely felt a little relaxed, and finally we were sure it will be a great bind………

Dedicated to the girl of my life......

My feelings were as usual when I saw you first time,

I never thought in my wildest dream of you being mine;

You were stepping out of your room, with water drops falling from your tresses,

It was the smell of yours trying to give me a message;

I couldn’t think much but went to my room,

Your image still around my mind with a sound boom boom……

Then we started talking and exchanging few thoughts,

We became good friends, touchwood I started admiring you a lot;

You are so simple, lovely, adorable and truthful,

I almost became a fan of yours without realizing where I was heading to;

We talked, we laughed, and we giggled together,

Sometimes distance does not create a barrier but works like a cap with a feather;

It’s always a nice feeling talking to you,

Suddenly I started realizing that I can be myself when I am with you;

I wish if we get chance to meet more often,

May god kill all your fears and give you more strength;

I still feel that we can be great friends without any strife,

Would you mind being with me for the rest of your life?

You have my whole life to think and take your decision;

My feelings for you won’t change, even if you give me millions of reasons…..

These notes are dedicated to the girl of my life….

We know very well that we both can make wonderful soul mates……without any strife…

When Unfortunate turns into fortunane....

Kabhi kabhi badkismati bhi 

kismati me badal jati hai

Jis cheej ko aapne sapne me bhi na paya ho

vo tohfe me mil jati hai

Suraj jata to hai pashim me 

doobne ke liye

lekin 11 ghante me aasha ki 

nai kiran najar aati hai

Jis cheej ko aapne sapne me bhi na paya ho

vo tohfe me mil jati hai

Vo bhi kya din the jab roti aur pyaj khakar 

gujara kiya karte the

Khuda aisa vaqt bhi lekar aaya 

jab ghee ke bina roti gale se na utar pati hai

Jis cheej ko aapne sapne me bhi na paya ho

vo tohfe me mil jati hai

Log kehe hain raat ka andhera 

nakaratmakta ki nishani hai,

Is nakaratmakta se prerit hokar 

Edison ban gaya prakash ki kahani hai

Kabhi kabhi badkismati bhi 

kismati me badal jati hai

Jis cheej ko aapne sapne me bhi na paya ho

vo tohfe me mil jati hai!!!

And......it took me 37 days to find my new muse...

And suddenly he started finding it difficult to write something when he realized that his writing is always inspired by someone and hardly by himself. It took him 37 days to find a new muse in himself and compose something. Things were looking quite easy in present; however future seems to be difficult. His positive attitude was standing on one leg and could fall anytime when he realized that both of his legs have been in his control and its only him who was not using both of the legs.

After realization of both the legs being in his control he started breathing deeply. There was a sudden confidence in the life which can be termed as "Self Confidence". And this motivated him to go ahead and achieve his professional goal even if personal goals are not achieved.

His personal life was not responding much and now has become a muse or inspiration to start writing again. One break up after another was the way his life was going......and the realization of the same made him stronger and increased his "self-awareness". His articles used to make people laugh and now his articles have become more of spiritual or humane. People might not find this piece of writing interesting enough to read; however he was not bothered but maintains his writing styles.

Though he was not a professional writer; however he always kept his mind aware of interest of people before composing something but today the writer inside him started flowing naturally. and here he ended up writing so many lines in 14 minutes which may turn up into a good poem very soon.

Thanks for reading......if you might have read the complete write up :)

When GOD gives you money....

 "If god gives u money...he makes sure that dis money flows into your pocket with tonnes of liabilities...u may want to see around 4 examples...."

Few days ago, I posted this line on my facebook page. Every time when you post something on a social networking website, you and I know that we want maximum comments and we feel happy to see that the number of comments increasing day by day. Well, not much of comments I received when I posted this thought on FB. This though kept shaking me since almost three weeks and today finally I am putting the same on paper.

Let me start from my experience. This thought strike me every time as and when I see people begging at the traffic signal. It strikes again when I see richest of the riches spending lacs of rupees on electronic items, or a car. People at traffic signal never dies of heart attack. Neither they die of hunger. Money flows into your pocket with its own consequences. I tried thinking logically; however I was unable to give any logic. It just happens.

I don't know but it seems difficult today. I am finding it difficult to put things in words. Better I start writing again before I lost this thing of mine. This was an effort to put things into words before the memory fades.

Few of my creations.....

Everyone is playing a Protagonist of his life...we think that different things are happening around us and because of us....but the truth is that we are happening around different things and our existence will be null and void without things....


Human Life is like a nuclear reactor.....you fall in love, break up; fall in love (2nd time) break up and then fall in love again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Today someone asked my why we write something on face book news feed...I answered that "Writing something on face book is just a feelgood factor.....isn't it!!!!


The BAD is the new GOOD these days :)


It takes another gal to forget one;-)


May dis dessehra inspires us killing d Ravana in ourselves and make this world more beautiful:-)


I made two important decisions of my life during our relationship..one being the best and other being the worst.....The worst decision was that I started liking you...the best decision was that I always stopped myself from proposing you.....and now I am a happy man :)


Make sure you see whether there's wooden thing near you before you say "Touch-wood" otherwise..you never know ;)


Life's like an aeroplane.....with no starting and ending point....God being a pilot takes you anywhere.....so you don't have to control life....just keep flying :)


Coincident happens only when you expect them the least....that's the main difference between the reel life and real life :)


He thought that he would enjoy when he will grow up...After growing up he looks back and wish to enjoy if he were a kid :(


And then she never replied, his eyes kept staring at celfone, waiting for a beep; every passing minute was contributing towards reduced hope.....and she never replied!!!!


One more day ended..with smile on my face; i found myself as a happy man..not being part of any race; i m not one of those horses who runs on racecourse.... I m a LION...ppl start hiding when they hear me roar...


I got into a cab, asked driver to play FM.....my head started moving with the beats of song...after 5 minutes I realized that the song is in Tamil language....OMG....I am in Chennai...someone has rightly quoted... "Music has no language"


Life shows us too many stages.....and sometimes one specific stage could be an antonym of the other.........


A tag line for Company: "We don't see success as an outcome....its a part of our processes" @copyright Hemant Arora


Vo kehte hain ki daru lazeez nahin....humne bola dost, lazeez to bahut hai par akele peene wali cheez nahin...


Did you just realize that everything that you think does not make sense is actually the most sensible one :)


Acceptance is the gateway to peace....


Office is the place where life lives you.....Once u step out U live ur life ;)


Don't run.... its not a 100 meter race... walk with patience... you will get what u deserve.


I am raising a service request with GOD's request fulfillment function to have "Shift+Delete" key in the keyboard of our life....let's see if he can manage the balance between cost and customer satisfaction ;)


Today one of my frnd said: 'Life Sucks'; I replied: 'suck d life before it sucks u'


Let the flowerpot of life remains empty if u don't get a flower......there's no need to compromise and put thorns instead of flowers just for the sake of filling ur life wid somethng......


Do we find things good because we are aware of what is bad!!!!! Imagine the existence of Good without Bad........


Its not always about moving ahead...... Deeper the roots, more prosperous a tree is :)




Every end is a new beginning............ Isn't it!


Famous lovers lines: 'main tumhare liye Jaan de dunga' 'main tumhare liye chaand tare le aaunga' 'main tumhare liye saat samandar tak paar kar sakta hu' ...... Comon all the ashiques of this world.... Why u always have to do some superhero act to get a gal...... life's simple ;) lets make it simpler..


Sometimes its good to go through a confusing phase in life......... U tend to make some of the best choices in this phase...


We can not call every ''not good'' thing as 'bad'.........i wish if i have the control on dictionary....i would have removed all the negative words.......


The time has come when nothing troubles me.......either something good may happen or something less good may happen......something bad can not touch me or can never happen in my life at all....


Our life is not less than an academy award winning movie.....we just need to observe things closely and you will enjoy a lot ;) ...... have you just smiled after a micro observation on your past!!!!!!


Here v go wid d final draft of replacement of an old proverb: 'u have 2 b at d rite place,at d rite time and wid d rite partner...and suddnely u realize tht u r nt a vergin anymore;-) '

Trying to wake up the writer :)

Last two months were too busy to write something. I was slogging my ass like anything in the office. The trip to Bangalore was great. It was successful on both personal and professional front. At the end of this trip everyone got certified which was the actual objective of the trip. And I also made a few good friends so next time I am sure I would better pass my free time with some friend rather than watching a channel called "GOD" (You must be wondering why)

Well one of my colleague is a fan and follower of GOD who accompanied me in Bangalore and I had no choice except watching this channel forcefully. This certainly does not prove that I am an Atheist and also does not indicate that I am a believer. Well I think one life would not be enough to tell who I am so I am moving from this controversial topic to something different.

One thing is definitely true about me that I love exploring not only new places but also people (don't take the meaning of exploring otherwise huh). So August month was about exploring new people and new places.

One thing I realized after making good friends during this break from my blog; that "Can we be friends!!!" typically does not work like any Bollywood movies. It just happens naturally. If I press the rewind button on the music player of my life, I don't recall if I have used this sentence or any other typical Bollywood sentence ever. May be my readers also could do the same thing and see if they have done that ever.

One more realization that opposite natures simply attracts you just like north and south pole of a magnate. But again we need to be very careful that we don't cross the thin line between friendship and attraction which mostly happens incase of all the yougster (Well I too did it quite a few number of times).

Well; it was nice to write after a long time. I am going to try my best to continue this habbit as long as possible. Enjoy yourself with the festive season of Ganpati Bappa....

The poet inside me always wake up in boring lectures....

Hi All,

Its been a long time to pen down something on blog but my pen had always been in action whenever it got some time to write something. It was a mansoon noon on 10 July when we were in III Classroom. The professor was a senior official of LIC and my pen forced me to write below lines about the environment in the classroom:

III class was really cool,

The instructor didn't know the training rules;

We all were enjoying ourselves thinking some or the other things,

And waiting for the interval bells to have a cuppa of tea;

I bet you this guy was full of experience & a sea of knowledge,

We think he should have switched to Hindi and avoided english luggage;

Peril, hazard, loss, insurance were the words buzzing into my ears,

I suddenly remembered the lectures of my childhood years;

Talk of sen-sex reminded me about one thing known as SEX,

I heard girls sitting besides talking about there legs being waxed;

Winding up now as some important topic is going on,

You will get to see more of poet inside me if the lecture remains on.

And the last line of the poem proves to be true when one more situational poem came from my pen:

Anuj is scratching his head,

Daksha is sleeping with her eys open,

Vinay is trying hard to concentrate;

Can all this be put together to make a poem?

Zak just woke up and asked a question from previous slide,

Harshil looks blank looking at the ceiling,

Donno how Pinki is concentrating on slides,

Can all this be put together to make a poem?

The beautiful lady is biting her nails,

Our trainer is busy reading from slides,

Nilam is digging gold from his nose;

Can all this be put together to make a poem?

Lonliness......

Tanhai ki Dhoop me,

Kitabo ki chhaon hai;

Har lamha ek bojh,

Aur har shabd ek aas hai;

Akelepan ki pyaas se,

main marne hi vala tha;

Ki Panno ko khushbu ne diya,

Pani ka aihsaas hai.

"Old Ly's smile" "He fell in love again"

1st Chapter – 30 May 2010 

I actually stopped and allowed that 80 year old lady to cross the road. I don’t know how my hands automatically reached to stop my bike. She was looking so confident and almost stopped when she saw me approaching towards her, however she did smile when I stopped my bike and allowed her to cross the road at one go.  

I still remember those eyes with wrinkles like deep water in a well. Her hair almost turned into light gray and her back was a little bent and her face was heading towards road but I should not forget to mention that her eyes were glimmering with sparks. And I realized one thing today that the smile of a baby and people with the age of 75 and above (if they are not politician) is the most sanctified thing in this world. It looks so simple, truthful and selfless. I kept smiling for almost 2 minutes after seeing the old lady’s smile. 

2nd Chapter – 30 May 2010

 

 
And then he fell in love again. It was happening with him 3rd time when he started realizing that he could spend her whole life with a girl without reaching a saturation stage which he faced in her previous fairs (I don’t call it affair).

All this started with one or two SMS exchanges everyday and reached the stage when two souls share each bit of the information about their life. I don’t know but this time he started acting very careful. From his experience, he knew that love is the thing which does not last for one second or one day or one month or a year; however it is something which is made to last till decades and centuries. He did not have any intention to take a decade for love to happen again but he was definitely interested to take some time and reach the comfort zone of communication which was a little ambiguous till now.

She is so simple, beautiful (Take a broad meaning of this word) and redolent. She’s an introvert to strangers but super extrovert to people whom she has trust on. “Patience” is the word to describe her nature. A girl with all the madness with a dream of beautiful life. Well, it was not easy for her to describe or approach him but she did it whenever she got a chance. It was her first time when her relationship with a guy reached a level which can be described as “More than a friend”. But her core strength ‘patience’ always backed her from a direct approach to the guy. She always picked an indirect approach to explain her feelings to him.

Someone has rightly said that we should not interpret what girls say from their words because they are from Venus. They have a different methodology to express them which has been a reason for so many break ups turning guys into Devdas and sometimes this approach of gals has been a reason of the great concern for even themselves. And that’s the reason he kept making mistakes interpreting every signal with the wrong meaning. She wanted to communicate something else and he understood something different. Why don’t all boys and girls read “Man from Mars Woman from Venus” at least once? The book really helps understand the psychology of men and women.

Let me end on a happy note. I wrote this poem while I was waiting in an interview and a lady came and sat beside me:

I wish if there would be a mirror in front of my seat, I could have watched her straight, clean and neat;

When I saw her first time that stopped my heartbeat,
I can’t say nothing but she has beautiful feet;

I don’t know if her heart is as beautiful as she or it’s a cheat,
this confusion certainly stopped me from going ahead and ask for meet.

Bits & Pieces from the life....

Hi Friends,

Would like to start with following lines:

Just got a chance to update my blog after a long time.....

so busy with work that my poems have lost the rhyme....

I just miss the sweet night of valentine together we dined....

I keep missing the beautiful face, smile and the way you shine...

I don’t know why I started writing today, maybe I just want to fill the gap of April month and prove that I still write my Blog with a minimum frequency of once in a month. Whatever, just a few questions hit my mind in past month:

1. Does Law of Attraction actually exist in our personal lives?

2. Have you ever fell in love, broke up; fell in love (2nd time) broke up and then fell in love again?

3. Do you think marriages should come with a return or exchange option?

Does Law of Attraction actually exist in our personal lives?

If you might have read the book called “Secret” or “Law of Attraction”, both these books try to establish the fact of Law of Attraction in our personal lives. ‘Secret’ dictates that by thinking and talking positive, our life moves to the positive direction. Law of Attraction gives examples like meeting with your friend the day you think about him/her. If I look at my life, it did happen to me many times. I think of something and I get it, however our thinking should be rational and not something which is irrelevant to time lines and unrealistic.

My objective of giving a thought to the principles quoted in Secret was to exemplify if Law of Attraction actually works or not and it did work for me. If not all the times but at least 75% of the instances it did work when I thought about it. So guys…..don’t stop yourself from dreaming about something realistic and achievable and you will definitely have it.

Have you ever fell in love, broke up; fell in love (2nd time) broke up and then fell in love again?

Now I am moving towards the second question about love happening twice thrice in one’s life. I have heard lot of people saying that Love happens only once in lifetime and I completely oppose it. I also oppose that you can love only one person at a time. Love can happen anytime and with anyone, at least in my life (examined and proved). And I think it gives the same vibrations the way it does the first time it happens. It doesn’t matter if it’s a first sight love or one year friendship conversion into love, your eyes still remain on your mobile screen waiting for the special (importance remains same) person’s name to be flashed either with a call or SMS. The excitement does not change and the anxiety remains same if you don’t get reply for merely 30 minutes.

I tried to argue with people boasting about their first love and how they could never love again and I have also seen the same people falling for another girl over a period of time. My surprise reaches the Mount Everest when they still disagree the fact what they experienced personally. My only advice to them is to be more open and acceptable about themselves and their lives. The thing which is said by all the famous and great people may not remain a hard fact. Things keep changing and one has to accept this change.

Do you think marriages should come with a return or exchange option?

Yes….I do agree that marriages must come with an exchange option wherein the person remains the same however the package may change. The tolerance level of new generation will keep decreasing day by day and we will find increasing number of divorces happening in our country. Marriage and family consultants may contribute towards the increased understanding of a few couples and this business will further flourish with big business houses venturing into the same but no one can decrease the number unless this is addressed at the ground level may be at the education level itself when a youngster is stepping into his graduation life. The concept of sex education had been addressed by many states but I have never seen any educationist supporting the concept of Relationship Education.

I hope our government and educational institutions may address the same before it becomes a nightmare like AIDS did in last few decades.

Sometimes I hardly believe that I could write so much and thoughts and ideas keep floating into my mind but time had always been an issue and become a constraints to my only remained creativity of maintaining a blog (with few audience who hardly visit it) and writing poems. Just for your information this blog was visited by 400 odd people in last 6 months and had 88 unique visitors with 50 repeated visits.

Let me also try writing a poem this time:

So many eyes I see everyday….

So many people I meet everyday…..

Still I could never skip those two eyes…..

This realization happened to me one day.

This was a perfect day of summer 2010…..

When the clouds came to defend her from sun….

she says that she never goes out in summer….

I thanked the clouds and we were on run.

She set herself on the backseat of my bike...

She came closer to say things making my heart tide..

I can still feel her touch on my shoulders……..

Her whisper still remains in my ears I wonder.

This was the first time we were seeing each other in private…

I was keen to know lot of things about her and could not afford to be late..

Most of the time we were looking into each other eyes…

We hardly started talking and it was the time to say good bye.

When I dropped her at home, I saw her eyes moist with tears;

I took her beautiful face in my hands and nab her tears…

Those two minutes were the most beautiful in my life…

We bid each other good bye with a moist sigh.