Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Reply to Ex-Girlfriend (now Wife) from her Ex-Boyfriend (now Husband)....

If you haven't read the previous letter, here's the First letter from Wife to Husband.

And now husband replies:

Dear Ex-girlfriend & now Wife,

I know I had been tough to handle all the time. I accept that I should have treated you a lot better than I did during last two years of our marriage. With this realization, I also accept that I haven’t been able to justify the role of husband.

There’s only one sane thing I did in my life, which is, falling in love with you and I recognize now that I cannot live without you. This is the only universal truth of my life. The thought of losing you is so dreadful and terrific that it took a fraction of second for tears to roll-out after reading the first ten lines of your letter. I see it now that it feels so good to be loved.

How can I forget that every time I got a call from my family members, I handed over the phone to you because I know you can handle them better than me. Our outings have been limited to weekly/fortnightly grocery shopping; however I still remember our first & second honeymoon. Waking up early in the morning for preparing my bed tea may be harsh on you; however seeing my beautiful lady the first thing after waking up forms such a great part of my day. But I now realize that it’s not always about ME, but it is about US.

A lot of people have told me that a woman can bring an organized life to a man’s life; I only experienced it after getting married to you. Even while leaving me with this letter, you acted so organized which is unimaginable. How can you be so organized in that state of mind?

You’ve kept my favorite tee-shirts & trousers with the same jacket which I never usually wash during the whole winter. I remember you yelling at me for wearing that jacket all days and I want to be yelled again. I remember you asking me to kiss you before I leave for office, and I want to kiss you again. How can I forget the coziness you used to bring to our bedroom with so clean bed sheets and pillows and heart loving fragrances?

Along with this letter, you will find a gift pack, and I want you to open it before I see you, off course in Shamiyana Restaurant. I am handing over my life to you and want you to decide if we want to live together or not. I beg you not to leave me alone in this life and promise that I would do all to ensure that you feel privileged and proud to have a guy like me.

PS: The gift pack contained the Table Tennis kit and the guy & the girl had their dinner in Shamiyana restaurant in Srinagar, Kashmir. 


  1. This post is truly touching. Sometimes, life is not a walk on a cake. It has its pitfalls and this is where we have to realise the importance on moving on. Loved your post!

  2. This is lovely, Hemant. I really wished this letter had more of it. It gives you so much joy to persuade your angry wife, doesn't it?

  3. Your thoughts provoking a new idea for blog - Knowledge base for husbands ;)


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